Mental Health Monday: Over-Explaining

Mental Health Monday: Over-Explaining

***This is my first post for a new blog series I will be calling Mental Health Monday where I share my journey to healthier mental health. I hope you not only enjoy these post but take something as well.***

I have a horrible habit of over-explaining and trying to force people to understand what I’m trying to say. Especially when it comes to the men I’ve dated. So what is I trying to make sure there is no miscommunication or misunderstanding on how I feel, comes off as me being crazy. I’m not sure why or when exactly i started being like this, but recently it was brought to my attention and well I was taken aback at the thought of someone thinking I’m crazy. Now…don’t get wrong I can be very passionate when it comes to my relationships, in the sense, I put my all into it. Which is probably why I find myself over explaining my thoughts and feelings, instead of maybe taking a step back and seeing if that’s what he wants to hear at that moment. I’m sure this stems from my fear of breakup/being dropped like I have been so many times. So I feel like, if he knows exactly how much I care about him or how much something affects me…he’ll then understand and this will all end well. I never take into consideration his feelings or his thoughts or his opinions and not because I think I’m right and he’s wrong…but because I get so scared i just start vomiting at the mouth with my emotions. Continue reading “Mental Health Monday: Over-Explaining”

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Summer Vlogging Goals:2013

Hey Yinz Guys! So I know I haven’t been on here in awhile…with that being said, I decided to set some vlogging goals that I will like to achieve over the summer. You know I have this nice ass camera it’s about time I really start putting it to use. So I made a vlog describing all my goals I have for my vlogging channel…but if you’re at work or don’t feel like watching a video I listed all the goals below the video as well…

Summer Vlogging Goals for 2013:

  • Going Back To School
  • Dating Chronicles
  • Car Searching
  • Apartment Hunting
  • Exercising/Getting Healthy
  • Cooking
  • Friends/Parties
  • Life Lessons I’ve Learned
  • Makeup/Hair/Product/Monthly Subscription Reviews(still questionable)
  • TV Show Recaps(maybe)

So yeah, I hope yinz guys continue to check out my blog and vlog! Thanks for tuning in and remember your #3Ps(more on that later)

Bye Yinz Guys!

No Merch(andise) March…

So for March 2013, I’ve decided to start what I call the “No Merch(andise) March”. Basically that means that I won’t be buying any unnecessary things, like clothes, shoes, bags, and makeup. My spending habits so far have been out of hand, so this was a way for me to curve it before my vacation in April. So I’m hoping I don’t give into my shopping addiction…please let the saving gods be with me this month lol!

So what are some ways you save? Let me know in the comment section!

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Ok Bye Yinz Guys!

Loc’d and Loaded…A New Natural Hair Journey

Hey Yinz Guys! It’s been a min since I’ve blogged…but you know how I be lol! So I have a lot to update you guys on, love…life…work…blah blah blah! But I think right now I’m going to blog about my new hair adventure. As you all may or may not know I cut my hair back in January of last year. I then celebrated my 1 Year Anniversary being a natural hair gal only a few months ago. All was fine and dandy, but as of recently my Rheumatoid Arthritis in which I have been suffering from for the past 5 years started to become such a pain in the ass, especially when it comes down to doing and taming my hair. So like 2 weeks ago while battling my hair(in which my hair won), I decided then that I had enough and that I was ready to start my “Loc Journey” with my hair. YES…I know that there is a certain stigma that is associated with dreadlocks/dreads/locs, especially in the work place, but so far everyone loves my new hair. Even the big boss committed on how much she loves it.

So yeah, I am just in LOVE with my hair. I even made a YouTube video about it. Yes I’m A Corn Ball lol!

So I hope to do more vlogs and blog posts documenting my loc journey…So stay tuned!